When I went to Miami earlier this summer, I ended up buying a new pair of shades, and deciding to buy new glasses. The Rx shades I had been sporting up until then were a prescription behind, and about 7 years old, so it was time. The regular glasses had a lens half popped out, so it was time for them, too. (While I'm at it, can I plug my friends at SEE? I've been going there for glasses for ages and they are always lovely and the frames super affordable, including Rx. I know Warby Parker is cheaper--and they do donations--but I really have SEE brand loyalty, not gonna lie.)
I love change, I really do. But it takes getting used to. And even something as silly (and fun!) as new glasses took some getting used to. The shades I picked have a masculine, 50's vibe and aren't something I would "normally" wear, or consider my usual style. But they worked really well with my face, and were different enough that I felt really drawn to them. As for the regular glasses, those were picked by one of my dearest friends, who had them on her face and as soon as I saw them, it was love. The saleslady had been trying to get me into these small, rectangular frames that I just didn't like, and considering glasses are something you wear on your face all the time, every day, I knew whatever I picked had to be love. And so it was.
At first it was super weird because they are a damn sight bigger than my old ones, which were dainty and small. These new frames are big, but they don't overwhelm my face, and everyone that sees them thinks I am instantly 100% cooler and more interesting than I actually am (kidding!) which is what I was going for, so yay. Last night a friend who hadn't seen them yet got her first glimpse and she was so funny--she said something along the lines of, "Oh my god! Those glasses! They are so sexy. Oh my god, they're amazing on you. I kind of want to date you now." Which is the effect I want to have, but on dudes and not my married girlfriends. :)
Here is a visual of my new regular glasses:
I got the ones in the middle, with the blue on the inside. I can't really describe to you how much I love them. That's how much. But the interesting thing is, my brother hated them on sight and said he couldn't get used to me in them and in his typical blunt manner (we are blunt in my family) said, "I think they're too big and in a few years you're going to look back and say what was I thinking."
So here's the style lesson for you all--as long as I let what he said get to me, I couldn't get used to myself in these glasses. I felt not like myself, but not in that great way where you feel like a new person, but in that doubting way of "maybe he's right and these are *totally* wrong for me." And then I said fuck it. I knew it was love at first sight, I knew that they worked on me, and I loved them, so who cares if he didn't? And ever since then, I have owned my new glasses and owned my new look and I keep getting reactions like the one my friend gave me, saying my glasses are the coolest thing ever and omg I look awesome and like someone you'd want to get to know, which is the whole point of style, is it not?
I believe that what we put on our person, on our faces, in our hair, on our feet--that all of it is a form of artistic expression, and a form of personality expression. Yes, there are days when all I'm wearing is something really boring because I woke up late and couldn't be bothered to think and hadn't shaved my legs so I couldn't wear a short skirt or dress and blah blah. But when you care about what you put on, even if it's just one item that's special to you, I think you are putting that out in the world to be seen, to be a bit of your personality that people can instantly grasp.
I love what my new glasses say about me and the type of person I am, and maybe that's why I love them so much. I would love to show you a picture of me, but I was cyber-stalked a couple of times pretty fiercely, so anonymous is the word for now, possibly ever. Sorry if that disappoints.
In another personal-style news, I am probably, 99.9% going to get my hair ombre'd. If you've read this blog for long, you know my love of ombre in general, so to have it in hair form is just fucking cool. I read somewhere that it was a trend on its way out, but I don't know if you've noticed, but I'm not someone who "follows" trends. I like what I like and if it happens to be "in," great. And I'm not saying I'm not influenced by trends, but something not being trendy isn't going to stop me if I really like it. I've been debating the ombre hair thing, just because I don't have a colorist at the moment and was worried it would be super duper expensive, but I found a good, affordable place that everyone raves about on Yelp, so I'll let you know. This is an example of what I'd like:
Biel can't act, but damn she's got a good colorist. The effect on her is my favorite. I would ideally like blue mermaid hair like Claire Barrow, but really can't do it with my job. Plus my hair is very fine and bleach would kill it. So ombre highlights it is! I think the biggest plus is that it's a change, but it's subtle, and can be grown out easily or cut off without having an "awkward phase" replete with roots.
That's me for now. I've got another post coming up about the costume design in The Last Mistress, which was amazing. Expect it sometime this week.